Do you realize how lucky we are? We are living in probably the most incredible era in the history of our planet and we get to be here for it. Why is it the most incredible era in the history of our planet, you ask? Because we know something that no one else knew.
We know the secret to life.
The law of attraction has been around since the beginning of time and it has worked on every single person who has ever lived, including us. Most people just didn’t know it until now. But that’s not really what’s important. What’s important about it is that it can be completely manipulated by each and every one of us in order to design our lives to be exactly how we want them. In my book, The Secret Power of the Universe, I give you in depth detail on how to use the law of attraction successfully. But if you don’t want to read a book about it, below I share with you the 10 most important steps you’ll need in order to really “get” how to make the law of attraction work for you.
Keep in mind that I understand there are many posts on the Internet claiming to show you how to use the law of attraction in 3, 4, or 5 easy steps. And I wanted to do the same for you as I know 5 steps is so much easier than 10. However, when I tried to break it down I found there was just too much missing for real results. If I was to be honest then I had to give you all the information needed. Not just 5 easy steps. So, although there are twice as many steps here, if you do them all, I promise, you will achieve the results you’re looking for.
What is the law of attraction?
Just like the law of gravity and the law of relativity, the law of attraction is one of our universe’s natural laws. It’s a law that we all live by and there’s no getting around it or changing it. So many people ask the question, “How do I make the law of attraction work?” But that’s the wrong question to be asking because the law of attraction is already working. It’s working constantly, for everyone, all the time and without pause. The right question to be asking is, how do I make the law of attraction work for me?
The law of attraction states, what we think about we attract into our lives. Have you ever wondered why the rich hang out with the rich and the poor hang out with the poor? Why do the preppy girls hang out together in one group while hipsters all hang in another? Well, most people don’t walk around all day thinking about other people’s lives, do they? No, we don’t. We go about our daily business focusing on ourselves and on our own lives, therefore attracting into it more people in similar circumstances to ourselves and to our own lives.
Happy and carefree people will attract more happy and carefree people because they are mainly focusing on themselves. Just as sad and angry people will attract to them more sad and angry people because they too are mainly thinking about themselves. But don’t misconstrue this as being a bad thing. It’s just human nature. We think about ourselves so much because it’s what we know the most about.
Not only do we attract people to us with the law of attraction but we also attract things and circumstances as well. Which means our lives have been entirely created by our own thoughts and feelings. Many people don’t want to believe this. If your life hasn’t been going so great you might want to shun that statement too. Who would want to except that the unsuccessful life of poverty a person is living has been completely created by themselves? But don’t fret. This is really good news. If we are creating our own lives with our thoughts then everything you have created up to this point can be undone just by changing your mental attitude and perspective.
Starting today you can start to overturn all the things you don’t want in your life and generating the life of your dreams.
Now lets dive in to the 10 most important steps to using the law of attraction successfully.
1. Know What You Want
Most people don’t really consider this an actual step. I do. There are many things I wrote in my book that will help you exponentially in making the law of attraction work for you but are not necessarily what I would call required steps. This one is.
First of all, lets start off by saying If you don’t have a clear understanding of what you want, that leaves you wide open to change your mind. And, yes, you are more than welcome to change your mind. But at some point you have to say enough is enough and make a final decision. Think of it this way. The universe is already working on bringing you what you want. Every time you change your mind, the universe has to stop and start the process all over again, making you have to wait that much longer. But this next one is probably the most important reason why you should know exactly what you want. The universe is all about end results and could care less about ‘how’ you get it. Most of the time, what you want will cost money, right? Well, if you ask for money but the universe doesn’t see you with any house, car or new business to show for it, then the universe ultimately thinks you don’t need the money for anything, resulting in you not getting any.
Why would the universe give you money when it thinks you don’t have any need for it? Just because you ask for it doesn’t mean anything. The universe needs to see what the money is for. So figure out what you want. Really think about it until you’re sure of exactly what you want. Be as clear and precise as you can. Remember, the clearer and more specific you are the more precise the universe will be with what it gives you. Not only that but the clearer you are the faster you’ll get it.
2. Write it Out – I Ams & I haves Only
Writing a list of what we want is very important because, first of all, you will be using this list on a daily basis to help train your subconscious mind. But also, believe it or not, it’s actually pretty easy to forget what you want. As I mentioned in the first step, you have to be as specific as possible with what you want. Well, when you’re talking about exactly how much money you want to see in your checking account, how much money you want in your savings account and how much money you want to see in any stocks and bonds you might have, you could end up with too many numbers to remember. If you can’t remember how much money you originally asked for, the next time you bring it up to the universe you’ll end up having to think up another number. The universe has already begun creating for you the amount of money you wanted and had a plan on how it was going to get it to you. Changing even the slightest things in your list such as this could result in the universe having to completely change course, which can ultimately cause the whole process to take longer to work for you.
When writing your list you should first start off with your long-term goals. How do you see yourself at the height of your life? How much money do you have? How much money do you make? What kind of house do you live in? Where do you live? Do you have any vacation homes? How many months a year do you work? How many days a year do you vacation? By the height of your life, where have you been? Where have you already taken vacations? What kind of cars do you have? Do you have a pool? Do you have a housekeeper? Do you have a motorhome? Then do the same thing with your personal life.
After that you’re going to write a list of your short-term goals of things you think you should accomplish in the next 5 years. Once you have both your lists you are going to condense your lists into something short enough to be able to read to yourself several times a day
So we know that lists are important, but lately we’ve been learning one other thing that has really made this step a game changer. Instead of writing a list of things we want, we should be writing this list out acting as though we already have the things on the list. One of the most important things you can remember when using the law of attraction is this, the universe can and will only give us what it thinks we already have. So if we want to make things happen in our lives we have to do whatever it takes to get the universe to believe that we already have the thing it is we’re wanting. And when we do this it also helps us to condition ourselves into believing it as well.